How do we create peace? Peace is actually a byproduct of the practice of forgiveness. So ask yourself this question: What do I need to forgive in myself to help me feel more peace? Because a lot of times, what we’ll do is we’ll start thinking about mistakes that we made and ways that we screwed it up and we’ll criticize and condemn ourselvessaid by the girls from Peckham Escorts.
So ask the question, “What do I need to forgive in myself that will help me feel peace?” And the second question is, “What do I need to forgive in him? What behaviors or actions do I need to forgive in him to help me feel at peace?”
Now, release comes from gleaning the gold, learning the lesson of any given situation and releasing the rest. So the question is what lessons can I learn from this experience? Right? When was it that I didn’t listen to my intuition? Or when did I yield my standards or boundaries? Or how did I not show up in a way that I knew I should be showing up? Or what did I do well that I can celebrate in this circumstance? What lessons can I learn and how can I grow from this situation? And then release the rest.
Once you get that lesson, the reason why that’s so important is because oftentimes, there’s a fear that if we don’t get the lesson, then we’re going to experience the same thing again. And it’s a horrible experience to be abandoned and just to have someone cut out with zero explanation. But when you learn the lesson, when you glean the gold, you’re able to set yourself up for a different result in the future.
Creating the experience of possibility and hope. So what generates possibility and hope? That’s when you wish the other person well, when you wish them a life filled with love, a life filled with joy, and you wish that same thing for yourself. So it’s a private prayer in your mind, in your heart. Send them a warm beam of wishing them well, a warm beam of love, a warm beam of, “You know what? We weren’t right for each other, but I hope that something amazing happens for you in your life and I hope the same thing for me.” When you enter into that practice, you actually open yourself up for new possibilities in your lifesaid by the girls from Peckham Escorts.
So when you feel yourself getting sucked back in into the vortex of that drama, just decline that and say, “You know what?” I’m going to practice these steps and it will release more peace in your life, you release the drama and you create more possibility for yourself to move forward. So I hope that this serves you in expanding the love in your life.